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Replay: Are you willing to be impacted by others?

Posted by on Mar 24, 2012 in blog links, community, discipleship, fellowship | 2 comments

Replay: Are you willing to be impacted by others?

In honor of my sixth blogiversary – which I celebrated a few days ago – I’m “replaying” the post “Willing to be impacted by others” which I first published six years ago during the first week of this blog. It’s a short post… I didn’t write as much back then. But, I think the point is very important. Yes, it’s important for us to be willing to get involved in the lives of other people. But, it’s just as important for us to allow other people to be involved in our lives.


Willing to be impacted by others

A commenter made the following statement at The Interrelational Church:

I think that the problem we encounter is that most people are readily willing to impact others lives, but are not as willing to be impacted by the lives of others.

Can true relationship exist between two people if one or the other refuses to be impacted – changed – by the other person? This is a question that the church must answer. Biblical fellowship is not “shake hands with three people around you.” Instead, biblical fellowship is sharing in each other’s lives… something that cannot happen in two hours on Sunday morning.

Vulnerability… that seems to be key here. Are we willing to allow other people to see us at our worst? Are we willing to allow the Spirit of God to work through other people to affect change in our lives? These two questions are related… Can we have fellowship with one another if we are not willing to impact the other person’s life, and to be impacted by the other person?


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  1. 3-24-2012

    When we begin to see that we need to begin to see the priesthood of all believers we then begin to see Christ more fully.

  2. 3-27-2012


    I think you’re right. There are several factors in the modern, traditional understanding of church that fights against “the priesthood of all believers”, although all would probably agree to it in theory.